korien_nov5“When all is said and done, we’re just too different.”
“This device looks beautiful and has a lot of features, but when all is said and done it’s just not very good at its main function.”

“When all is said and done” means “in the end”. We use it to say what’s really important when all the less important things have been cleared away. It sounds like what is left at the end after all the action has played out and everyone has said whatever they have to say.